I remember when I caught my ex-husband cheating for the last time and he told me to pack my things and leave. This wasn't the first time he had said that to me. But every other time, that fear would kick in. Where would I go? How can I take care of my kids? How … Continue reading It Doesn’t End Here
There were moments in both my completely single life and in my dating life when I needed these reminders. It might be a no brainer but when we get caught up in our insecurities in our singleness or in our hopefulness in a relationship - that maybe we have found the one, we tend to … Continue reading Relationship Can’ts and Can’s
I saw this on my FB newsfeed and had to share my thoughts on it. First of all, if a guy can drop a dick pic in 0.2 seconds into your DMs, he can send a text how your day went. Bottomline is... you don't have to prove anything to a guy. If he doesnt … Continue reading Tell Him Bye!
I'm sorry I have gone missing! The last few months have been one of the hardest months I have faced. New challenges. New lessons. New experiences. All very overwhelming, exhausting, and depleting but I can't wait to share my epiphanies, new hope, renewed faith, lessons learned, mistakes made, and standpoints on dating, relationship, and single … Continue reading Life Update
If you are one of those people who seek validation from men... you need to read this
Today, I sat alone. I went to go watch my kids perform with their choir for the spring recital. At first, there were plenty of empty seats. A few family here and there. But in a matter of minutes, the audience was filling up with couples, families, friends, and grandparents. Surrounded by groups, I sat … Continue reading Today, I Sat Alone
What the Millennials and Gen Z need to realize about their #relationshipgoals
I had recently gone through a season of bitterness. For all the wrongs I see in the world, in my life, and in myself. It took awhile to process my bitterness and this poem is the outcome.
The biggest challenge I struggle to this day..The one thing that makes me doubt everything that happened in my marriage, is whether or not I truly am the one to be blamed for everything that occurred. If I had to stand outside my life and view things objectively, I would tell myself that no matter … Continue reading Speak Your Truth
Yesterday on Sunday, April 21, 2019, I have decided to commit to a year of no dating. For the past year and half, I had been actively dating (on and off). When I first started dating, a lot of them were very negative experiences. Guys who just wanted sex. Guys who would ghost. Guys who … Continue reading Committing to Growth – No Dating for a Year