Lies You Need to Overcome Part II

On Monday, I made a list of fear based lies that we tend to believe that discourages us from dating or makes us want to settle for someone who isn't quite so good for us. If you want to read part one, you can do so here Part One Monday, we covered the lie that … Continue reading Lies You Need to Overcome Part II

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Lies You Need to Overcome Part I

Not only have I heard other women say these things, these are feelings that I have dealt with myself too. And you gotta realize, that's exactly how the devil works. He's cunning. He's sly. He knows how to strike the right cord to make you feel like maybe your standards are too high. Maybe you … Continue reading Lies You Need to Overcome Part I

Don’t Settle for the “At Leasts”

There's nothing more heartbreaking than seeing an amazing woman settle for a guy after she leaves an abusive relationship because "at least" he's a good guy. Sometimes, an at least guy isn't all that he's cracked up to be. He spends all his free time with his friends... but at least he has a job. … Continue reading Don’t Settle for the “At Leasts”

The Truth About My Sex Addiction and Struggle for Purity

For me, loneliness wasn't a loneliness of the heart. It wasn't about the absence of a partner. My loneliness stemmed from feeling like I wasn't enough. It was a sickness of believing that I will never be enough for anyone. And in that sense, solitude was my ironic healing. But in that sickness is where … Continue reading The Truth About My Sex Addiction and Struggle for Purity

How to Find Dates Outside of Dating Apps

Boy meets girl. Girl meets boy. Eyes connect. And boom. Before you know it, you see them talking the night away and exiting the door they came through alone, together. Does that even happen anymore? I feel like it's not as common but I prefer meeting people organically rather than online dating where steady streams … Continue reading How to Find Dates Outside of Dating Apps

It’s Okay to Say, “No.”

When you know exactly what you want and you know that what you want is reasonable, you just know whether or not a relationship is going work. You just know whether or not you're going to CHOOSE to love this person. My number one item on my list when it comes to dating is that … Continue reading It’s Okay to Say, “No.”

How to be Happy when Everyone Else Seems to be in a Relationship

We've all heard the saying, "The grass is always greener on the other side," and that those who are in relationships envy single people (do they really?) and single people envy those in a relationship. Still, it doesn't help the little pang of hurt and jealousy when you see your friends and co-workers are being … Continue reading How to be Happy when Everyone Else Seems to be in a Relationship

Bloguary #1//How to be Single

For the month of February, I want to challenge myself to blog everyday. 28 days. It's going to focus on dating and relationship encouragement for both singles and those who are coupled and maybe even get a little personal and share my story, my testimony of how I found God again, and a couple of … Continue reading Bloguary #1//How to be Single