PSA on Rejection

There’s nothing wrong with you. 
You’re not missing anything. 
You are good enough.

I’ve been seeing a lot of incredible women feeling discouraged because after putting in the effort to meet someone, they are still single. And the self-doubt is starting to eat away at them: “Am I good enough?” “Is there something wrong with me?” “Am I missing something?”

Let me tell you something…

It makes sense to reject or be rejected more than you find your lobster. Because when you say yes, that’s it. You’re done. You’re in it for the long haul. Yeah,  things might end, but the intention is that we’re looking for long term commitment. So when a guy leaves you, don’t think of it as there being something wrong with you, or not being good enough, or missing something. Think of it as keeping yourself open and available for the right guy. Because you don’t wanna get stuck with the wrong person who doesn’t appreciate you and love you the way you deserve to be loved. When you’re turned down, it sucks and it hurts.. but we’re trading our short term pain for long term happiness. So just keep being amazing and remind yourself of your worth

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