Don’t Give Your Past So Much Power

A trend that I see often when I connect with other women is that their past is given WAY too much power. The funny (but it's not funny) thing is, the first significant event that they share with me is more recent. And when I help them realize that THAT point in time still isn't … Continue reading Don’t Give Your Past So Much Power

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You Don’t Want a Ride or Die Relationship

I've been hearing a lot about people wanting "ride or die" relationships. And honestly, I think it's one of the most dangerous #relationshipgoals to want. Here's why. 1. You start making excuses for him "He's only like this when he's drunk." "He normally doesn't act this way." "He only gets like this when (insert excuse … Continue reading You Don’t Want a Ride or Die Relationship

Lies You Need to Overcome Part I

Not only have I heard other women say these things, these are feelings that I have dealt with myself too. And you gotta realize, that's exactly how the devil works. He's cunning. He's sly. He knows how to strike the right cord to make you feel like maybe your standards are too high. Maybe you … Continue reading Lies You Need to Overcome Part I

Don’t Settle for the “At Leasts”

There's nothing more heartbreaking than seeing an amazing woman settle for a guy after she leaves an abusive relationship because "at least" he's a good guy. Sometimes, an at least guy isn't all that he's cracked up to be. He spends all his free time with his friends... but at least he has a job. … Continue reading Don’t Settle for the “At Leasts”

The Truth About My Sex Addiction and Struggle for Purity

For me, loneliness wasn't a loneliness of the heart. It wasn't about the absence of a partner. My loneliness stemmed from feeling like I wasn't enough. It was a sickness of believing that I will never be enough for anyone. And in that sense, solitude was my ironic healing. But in that sickness is where … Continue reading The Truth About My Sex Addiction and Struggle for Purity