On Monday, I made a list of fear based lies that we tend to believe that discourages us from dating or makes us want to settle for someone who isn't quite so good for us. If you want to read part one, you can do so here Part One Monday, we covered the lie that … Continue reading Lies You Need to Overcome Part II
There's nothing more heartbreaking than seeing an amazing woman settle for a guy after she leaves an abusive relationship because "at least" he's a good guy. Sometimes, an at least guy isn't all that he's cracked up to be. He spends all his free time with his friends... but at least he has a job. … Continue reading Don’t Settle for the “At Leasts”
For me, loneliness wasn't a loneliness of the heart. It wasn't about the absence of a partner. My loneliness stemmed from feeling like I wasn't enough. It was a sickness of believing that I will never be enough for anyone. And in that sense, solitude was my ironic healing. But in that sickness is where … Continue reading The Truth About My Sex Addiction and Struggle for Purity
We've all heard the saying, "The grass is always greener on the other side," and that those who are in relationships envy single people (do they really?) and single people envy those in a relationship. Still, it doesn't help the little pang of hurt and jealousy when you see your friends and co-workers are being … Continue reading How to be Happy when Everyone Else Seems to be in a Relationship
I know that the dating process can feel hopeless, daunting, and pointless. I know that collectively, we all have a painful dating story. Or a painful relationship story. Or a painful break-up story. The whole process just sucks. But I also wanted to say that each guy, each date, each time you decide to share … Continue reading It’s Okay to Love, Girl
Ever started talking to someone and things seem to be going great? The connection is perfect, first date went well, second date went even better. And for whatever reason, things just didn't pan out at the end? Maybe he revealed some very bright red flags. Or he ghosted you. Or he started to feel distant. … Continue reading 3 Good Things About Rejection
The other day, I was thinking about how capricious our lives are. You wake up being in an amazing relationship only to be broken up over a single text in one afternoon. You wake up being in an amazing relationship and you are proposed to later that evening. You wake up safe and sound only … Continue reading Your Single Days are Numbered
Recently, I got really excited about my love life. Because for a moment, a VERY brief moment, it seemed like it was going to go somewhere. In one weekend, I met two guys the way I would like to meet a guy - organically. One was at a basketball game. The other was a guy … Continue reading Advocate for Your Love Life
I see a lot of debate on this particular topic. Do we wait? Can we drop hints? Can we initiate conversations? Is it a sin to take action? Is it a sin to be passive? I'm not an expert but I just thought I'd share my OPINION. (KEYWORD: OPINION) I do not think there is … Continue reading Can Women Pursue Men?
It's not about being picky or being undateable but keeping your heart pure.