Relationship Can’ts and Can’s

There were moments in both my completely single life and in my dating life when I needed these reminders. It might be a no brainer but when we get caught up in our insecurities in our singleness or in our hopefulness in a relationship - that maybe we have found the one, we tend to … Continue reading Relationship Can’ts and Can’s

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Committing to Growth – No Dating for a Year

Yesterday on Sunday, April 21, 2019, I have decided to commit to a year of no dating. For the past year and half, I had been actively dating (on and off). When I first started dating, a lot of them were very negative experiences. Guys who just wanted sex. Guys who would ghost. Guys who … Continue reading Committing to Growth – No Dating for a Year

Don’t Settle for the “At Leasts”

There's nothing more heartbreaking than seeing an amazing woman settle for a guy after she leaves an abusive relationship because "at least" he's a good guy. Sometimes, an at least guy isn't all that he's cracked up to be. He spends all his free time with his friends... but at least he has a job. … Continue reading Don’t Settle for the “At Leasts”

The Truth About My Sex Addiction and Struggle for Purity

For me, loneliness wasn't a loneliness of the heart. It wasn't about the absence of a partner. My loneliness stemmed from feeling like I wasn't enough. It was a sickness of believing that I will never be enough for anyone. And in that sense, solitude was my ironic healing. But in that sickness is where … Continue reading The Truth About My Sex Addiction and Struggle for Purity

How to be Happy when Everyone Else Seems to be in a Relationship

We've all heard the saying, "The grass is always greener on the other side," and that those who are in relationships envy single people (do they really?) and single people envy those in a relationship. Still, it doesn't help the little pang of hurt and jealousy when you see your friends and co-workers are being … Continue reading How to be Happy when Everyone Else Seems to be in a Relationship

It’s Okay to Love, Girl

I know that the dating process can feel hopeless, daunting, and pointless. I know that collectively, we all have a painful dating story. Or a painful relationship story. Or a painful break-up story. The whole process just sucks. But I also wanted to say that each guy, each date, each time you decide to share … Continue reading It’s Okay to Love, Girl