I remember when I caught my ex-husband cheating for the last time and he told me to pack my things and leave. This wasn't the first time he had said that to me. But every other time, that fear would kick in. Where would I go? How can I take care of my kids? How … Continue reading It Doesn’t End Here
I saw this on my FB newsfeed and had to share my thoughts on it. First of all, if a guy can drop a dick pic in 0.2 seconds into your DMs, he can send a text how your day went. Bottomline is... you don't have to prove anything to a guy. If he doesnt … Continue reading Tell Him Bye!
If you are one of those people who seek validation from men... you need to read this
Today, I sat alone. I went to go watch my kids perform with their choir for the spring recital. At first, there were plenty of empty seats. A few family here and there. But in a matter of minutes, the audience was filling up with couples, families, friends, and grandparents. Surrounded by groups, I sat … Continue reading Today, I Sat Alone
Yesterday on Sunday, April 21, 2019, I have decided to commit to a year of no dating. For the past year and half, I had been actively dating (on and off). When I first started dating, a lot of them were very negative experiences. Guys who just wanted sex. Guys who would ghost. Guys who … Continue reading Committing to Growth – No Dating for a Year
Let's be real. Single momming is exhausting. Having a partner and then suddenly doing it on your own is scary. There are some really hard falls that are hard to get back up from. Failure takes a whole new meaning. Failure means homelessness. Failure means not having food to eat. And I'll be honest when … Continue reading So?
If there's anything about God's love that I appreciate and so grateful for the most is His constant love. He doesn't love you a little less on the days you've had a bad day or love you a little more on the days you've had a good day. It's the same throughout. I have two … Continue reading How to Love
I realized that often times, the reason why I get depressed or carry a lot of stress is because of the expectations I have set for myself. And as a fellow human being, some of those expectations aren't realistic. And I mean realistic in the sense where it's probably impossible to stick to it 100% … Continue reading Are Your Expectations Toxic?
I know. When things get rough...it gets ROUGH. We all have those moments where we are in the pit.. and the pit all of a sudden becomes a place where we end up making camp in. We try to get out of it and get a move on but we just can't seem to climb … Continue reading You are Gifted
Making the choice to leave my marriage was the hardest thing I ever had to do, even when I wanted to end my life because of it. I would have rather stayed and battle suicidal thoughts than actually leave. But with a whole lot of God - He gets credit for all of my blessings … Continue reading Reasons to Move On from a Toxic Relationship