When you know exactly what you want and you know that what you want is reasonable, you just know whether or not a relationship is going work. You just know whether or not you're going to CHOOSE to love this person. My number one item on my list when it comes to dating is that … Continue reading It’s Okay to Say, “No.”
We've all heard the saying, "The grass is always greener on the other side," and that those who are in relationships envy single people (do they really?) and single people envy those in a relationship. Still, it doesn't help the little pang of hurt and jealousy when you see your friends and co-workers are being … Continue reading How to be Happy when Everyone Else Seems to be in a Relationship
For the month of February, I want to challenge myself to blog everyday. 28 days. It's going to focus on dating and relationship encouragement for both singles and those who are coupled and maybe even get a little personal and share my story, my testimony of how I found God again, and a couple of … Continue reading Bloguary #1//How to be Single
I know that the dating process can feel hopeless, daunting, and pointless. I know that collectively, we all have a painful dating story. Or a painful relationship story. Or a painful break-up story. The whole process just sucks. But I also wanted to say that each guy, each date, each time you decide to share … Continue reading It’s Okay to Love, Girl
There are 5 types of men you NEED to stop wasting your time and energy on. I don't care how hot or how sweet he seems to be. He's playing YOU and quite frankly, we as high-caliber women just DO NOT have that kind of time. Is the guy you're currently seeing fit into these … Continue reading Stop Wasting Your Time on These Men
"Sorry, you have too much baggage for me to deal with." - D. Bag I actually had a guy tell me that as his first message. I didn't even message him. Just read my profile and had the need to tell me that I am not of his interest. Thanks, bro? My response was, "I … Continue reading The Real Relationship Baggage
Ever started talking to someone and things seem to be going great? The connection is perfect, first date went well, second date went even better. And for whatever reason, things just didn't pan out at the end? Maybe he revealed some very bright red flags. Or he ghosted you. Or he started to feel distant. … Continue reading 3 Good Things About Rejection
When I left a toxic marriage two and a half years ago, I had no idea how scary dating had become. Dating became an entirely new world with lots of territories to explore. The territory of fuckboys is large and with today's online resources, so easy to come across them in all sizes, shapes, and … Continue reading 5 Dating Hacks
The other day, I was thinking about how capricious our lives are. You wake up being in an amazing relationship only to be broken up over a single text in one afternoon. You wake up being in an amazing relationship and you are proposed to later that evening. You wake up safe and sound only … Continue reading Your Single Days are Numbered
Recently, I got really excited about my love life. Because for a moment, a VERY brief moment, it seemed like it was going to go somewhere. In one weekend, I met two guys the way I would like to meet a guy - organically. One was at a basketball game. The other was a friend. … Continue reading Advocate for Your Love Life
