Change Your Focus

When I left my ex, I did not have the time to say, "I can't." I had to just DO. I didn't care what it was. I just knew that if I didn't do SOMETHING, it would be game over for me and my kids. We'd be homeless. We'd have nothing to eat. It would … Continue reading Change Your Focus


You Don’t Want a Ride or Die Relationship

I've been hearing a lot about people wanting "ride or die" relationships. And honestly, I think it's one of the most dangerous #relationshipgoals to want. Here's why. 1. You start making excuses for him "He's only like this when he's drunk." "He normally doesn't act this way." "He only gets like this when (insert excuse … Continue reading You Don’t Want a Ride or Die Relationship

Lies You Need to Overcome Part I

Not only have I heard other women say these things, these are feelings that I have dealt with myself too. And you gotta realize, that's exactly how the devil works. He's cunning. He's sly. He knows how to strike the right cord to make you feel like maybe your standards are too high. Maybe you … Continue reading Lies You Need to Overcome Part I

Don’t Settle for the “At Leasts”

There's nothing more heartbreaking than seeing an amazing woman settle for a guy after she leaves an abusive relationship because "at least" he's a good guy. Sometimes, an at least guy isn't all that he's cracked up to be. He spends all his free time with his friends... but at least he has a job. … Continue reading Don’t Settle for the “At Leasts”